Finding “The One” you seek as the perfect partner for you – begins with you.

Once you understand who you are as a person, then you can begin to find the “right partner” for you.

All too often when we seek a partner, we keep attracting the same type of person – they may look a little different from our last one – however, in essence they have the same qualities that we are looking to avoid – and no matter how much we try – we seem to be continuously drawn to the qualities we don’t want in a potential new partner (I’m sure you know what I mean).

So, how do we avoid repeating this pattern over and over again – the same type of person just in a different body? The process for breaking this tiresome and disappointing cycle starts with having a look at who we are and in my opinion PartnerMaps is the perfect place to start.

This is a really exciting thing to do and it’s actually a lot of fun! You will be amazed at what you discover about yourself. How good will you feel when you know “how to” start breaking that cycle? The cycle that has kept you trapped in being attracted to the partners in your past that have only brought sadness, frustration and loneliness in your life?

Let’s face it – we all have a basic idea of who we are – but in reality, that’s just the “below the surface stuff”. The things in our lives that we know we don’t want to experience in the partner for our future.

In order to find the right partner we need to understand who we are inside. What I call – “Who are you bringing to the table” when you meet a new person for the first time? The person, who you are looking at across the table and assessing if they just might be “The One” for you? The person, that together, you can share and create the possibility of your versions of “Happy-Ever-After” and not “I’ll get my pain and fears to talk to your pain and fears – and then maybe we can see if they can blend together and tolerate each other”.  [enter] “The Past Relationships”.

Looking at where we are now in our lives as a single person and looking at “What you are bringing to the table” in this potential new relationship you are seeking-  is the very first step in you successfully breaking that ugly cycle – that keeps replaying the same old tapes in your life (your pain and fears). The cycle that only brings – unhappiness, disappointment, heartache and tears (no matter what sex you are).

Taking the very first step – is a pathway to finding the perfect partner – for you. Imagine the possibilities that can now be open and available to you, the type of life you can create for yourself and the love that will be available to you – just by taking the first step!

Here’s to the new possibilities in your life and the love and partner you deserve. You really are a beautiful person – it’s time now, to let the “right person” into your life – so that they can see that too.

Smiles to you, Yvonne